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10 Meaningful Gifts for a Smart and Unique Teenage Girl

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I have two girls who give me lots of practice buying good presents. I should probably thank them.

Below are ten gift ideas for that smart and beautiful teenager in your life.

Below are ten gift ideas for that smart and beautiful teenager in your life.

What to Give an Extraordinary Young Woman

She's brilliant, independent, curious, tenacious, and unbelievably creative. Buying a really great gift for this girl is not going to be easy, right?

On the other hand, this is your chance to get her something fabulous. Don't waste money on some dumb ordinary thing she already has or won't ever use. Being a teenager is not easy, and these years are your last chance to take care of her, so give her something that truly reflects who she is and where she's going.

Whether she's your daughter, granddaughter, niece, or just a special girl you care about, below you will find some beta-tested suggestions for the perfect gift. How do I know? Because I have two teen-y, tweeny daughters. Over the years, many of the gifts I gave them have been total duds, but I have started to figure out what they really want, which I share with you here.

This is the first Rookie Yearbook: There are three others! They are non-sequential and can be read out of order.

This is the first Rookie Yearbook: There are three others! They are non-sequential and can be read out of order.

1. The Rookie Yearbook (I, II, III, & IV)

My daughter has dogeared and drooled over the first three Rookies already, and I can't wait to see her face when she opens her present and sees Rookie IV.

Tavi Gevinson, the editor who put these books together, is one cool kid. When she was 11 years old, she launched a blog called Style Rookie, which became an online magazine called Rookie Magazine which quickly attracted interest—over a million page views in less than a week after launching—so much interest that her best pieces were collected and published in the paper as The Rookie Yearbook I, full of smart, engaged, and engaging articles and interviews and interviews by Tavi, staff writers, Rookie readers, and various figures from pop culture.

Rookie is like the teen magazines of my youth, except it's written by smart people who really get it, so it's fifty times more creative, thoughtful, and inspiring. Mostly, it helps girls and young women recognize themselves and reconcile that self with society's expectations.

What They Say

"An exciting first exposure to this new brand of young, girl-power feminist journalism."

"Rookie combats the often ridiculous or destructive advice aimed at its audience, and it is a beacon for a smarter, more sensitive generation of young women." —Annie Bostrom

"The future of journalism." —Lady Gaga

See Tavi's TedTalk on What Makes a Strong Female Character.

2. A Musical Instrument

Maybe she walks around with earbuds in her ears all day long, or maybe she's already taken up an instrument, but if your girl is into music, then perhaps she'd love to fiddle around with a new instrument. We have electric and acoustic guitars, a keyboard, a trumpet, and an accordion, and whenever I hear music leaking out from under a closed door, I am thrilled.

If she already plays an acoustic guitar, maybe she'd like to plink on a ukulele or plug into an amp. She might enjoy playing with a harmonica or a trumpet if she likes wind instruments. Get her a digital piano or a synthesizer, and let her try her hand at that.

Don't forget the oddball instruments like bagpipes or a stylophone or hand harps: I saw a used accordion on eBay for $40!

A girl always has room for more books.

A girl always has room for more books.

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3. An Important Book by a Woman (Or a Man)

A book is the best present you can give someone. As Oscar Wilde said, “It is what you read when you don’t have to that determines what you will be when you can’t help it.” Giving someone a book is inviting them into a fascinating dialogue.

Is it just me, or are teachers not assigning the really great, important books? Maybe it’s our responsibility to introduce our girls to the books that stuck with us, the ones that made us feel and think something big.

When I give my daughters books, I try to find a beautiful used hardback. I write a dedication on the inside cover: Sometimes I include my favorite quote from that book as a little teaser, sometimes I tell her why this book was important to me and why I think she’ll think so, too.

Here are some excellent choices, ones your girl may not discover on her own:

  • The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood (dystopian literary sci-fi at its best)
  • Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston (mind-blowing feminist novel)
  • A Good Man Is Hard to Find by Flannery O’Connor (masterful short stories)
  • The Earthsea books by Ursula K. LeGuin (fantastic fantasy)
  • Anything by Octavia Butler (defies genre)
  • The Portable Dorothy Parker (taking sass to another level)
  • I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou (powerful coming-of-age)
  • The Yellow Wallpaper by Charlotte Gilman Perkins (one long, eerie short story she’ll never forget)
  • Sula by Toni Morrison (an epic novel about female friendships)

A few new fiction titles she may have missed:

  • Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell
  • Two Boys Kissing by David Levithan


  • Obsessive Genius: The Inner World of Marie Curie by Barbara Goldsmith
  • The Diary of Anne Frank
  • Helen Keller: The Story of My Life
  • Not That Kind of Girl: A Young Woman Tells You What She’s “Learned” by Lena Dunham
  • Yes, Please by Amy Poehler

More Books!


  • Assuming Names by Tanya Thompson
  • The Pregnancy Project by Gaby Rodriguez
  • I Am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban by Malala Yousafzai
  • Witches: The Absolutely True Tale of Disaster in Salem by Rosalyn Schanzer
  • The Good, the Bad, and the Barbie: A Doll's History and Her Impact on Us by Tanya Lee Stone
  • The Teenage Liberation Handbook: How to Quit School and Get a Real Life and Education by Grace Llewellyn
  • Material World: A Global Family Portrait by Peter Menzel
  • Anything by Mary Roach

In case she somehow missed reading these classics:

  • The Heart Is a Lonely Hunter by Carson McCullers
  • 1984 by George Orwell
  • A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess
  • To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
  • Siddhartha by Herman Hesse
  • The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde
  • The Baron in the Trees by Italo Calvino

Graphic novels:

  • Anything by Marjane Satrapi
  • Relish: My Life in the Kitchen by Lucy Knisley
  • Manga Shakespeare
  • Castle Waiting by Linda Medley

4. Game Gifts for Teenage Girls

These games are fun ways to give your brain a workout. She’s not too old to play games, and if they’re fun enough, she might even play them with you. It may feel like she’s pulling away these days, but these games are an excellent excuse to hang out together as a family.

  • Dixit is a deceptively simple and gorgeous game that will appeal to people from age 8 and up. My youngest daughter got it on her 8th birthday, and our whole family got hooked. My daughter is designing her own deck. The game is played with a gorgeous artist-drawn deck of cards, each one depicting a different symbolic scene and will appeal to anyone with even a little imagination. The rules are easy to follow, and it only takes about half an hour to finish. You need at least three people to play.
  • Qwirkle is a bag full of wooden tiles: each is one of the six different shapes in one of six different colors. It’s sort of like a cross between poker and dominoes in that you can play rows of all one color or shape, but this game also allows tactical maneuvers and well-planned strategy. (Winner of the Parent’s Choice Gold Award and a Mensa Select National Competition.) This is another game the whole family can play: It requires two to four players ages six and up.
  • Say Anything Every player answers a question like, “What’s the most important invention of the past century?” or “What would be the coolest thing to teach a monkey?” Then players try to figure out which answer the judge will like best. Some people are really good at talking, and it’s fun to discover and develop a talent for this game.

5. DIY Style and Fashion

Part of becoming an adult is deciding what your personal style is. Many teenagers go through an intense period of experimentation while they try on different styles to see how they feel. To encourage this experimentation, I've put together this list of street fashion (because forget those horrible, depressing typical fashion magazines):

  • Face Hunter and Travels with Face Hunter: Street Style from Around the World by Yvan Rodic
  • Fruits and Fresh Fruits by Shoichi Aoki
  • Street: The Nylon Book of Global Style by the editors of Nylon Magazine
  • DIY Fashion: Customize and Personalize by Selena Francis-Bryden
  • DIY Fashion Shoot Book by We are Photogirls

More Ideas:

  • Take her thrift shopping and make a game of it: try on costumes, experiment. (Last time we went, we found five fancy dresses from the '50s that fit her perfectly.)
  • Help her figure out which colors look best on her and then take her shopping to buy an item in a new color she's never worn before.
  • Take her to a big department store to get properly fitted for a bra. Buy her one in any style she chooses.

6. Boho Wrap Bracelets

I saw these bracelets in a fancy catalogue for almost $200. Even if I were filthy rich, it wouldn't feel right to spend that much on a bracelet. But then I went online and typed in the search terms "gem," "leather," "wrap," and "bracelet" and found a huge array of choices for less than $20—some with metallic beads, others with agates, turquoise, crystals, and other stones—color and style to suit almost any teenaged girl.

What my daughter likes about these is that they are handmade of natural materials and feel significant on her wrist when she's wearing them. Try Etsy or eBay.


7. An Experience

If you can't afford to send her to Europe or Iceland or Costa Rica for the summer—or even if you can!—any of these ideas would be fun for you both:

  • Road trip. Find something she's interested in within driving distance and go for it. If she's got her license (or a learner's permit), let her drive half the time and take turns choosing the music.
  • Movie marathon. My daughters and I love old or black-and-white movies: All About Eve, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Sunset Boulevard, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Gone With the Wind, West Side Story, Some Like it Hot, and Rebel Without a Cause. They loved Amelie, Whip It, and The Unbreakable Kimmie Schmidt. You could also watch the movies you loved when you were her age.
  • Art museum. If you're lucky enough to live near an art museum, take her! Sometimes it's even more fun if you make it a game: make up a story about the art or the circumstances under which it was made. Name the people in the paintings. In each room, pick out your favorite piece.
  • Concert or play. I tend to forget how fun plays and concerts are, but when I happen to remember to get us tickets for something, it's always memorable. The other day we went to see a local production of Hairspray!
  • Walk/Hike. Bring a picnic and find a spot with a wide view. Or, if you're urban, plan a walking tour of the city. Get a map and have fun planning it out. (Sometimes, I bring a camera, and instead of calling it a hike, I tell her we're going on a photo safari, which sounds more enticing for some reason).

8. Art

Pots of Ink. When I was young, my mom splurged on a set of Windsor & Newton inks for me, and I'll never forget it. I spent hours playing with those inks, and my daughters do the same. You can use them for fine line drawings or with a brush for a watercolor effect.

Calligraphy Set. If she likes to write poetry or letters or notes to her friends, a calligraphy set is a great gift idea. There are two kinds of pens: the old-fashioned kind with a pen and an array of different-shaped nibs she'll dip into pots of ink or a new-fangled kind that has little cartridges of ink. They're both good, but it's easier to switch colors with the old types, and there's less plastic. If she's a romantic soul, consider getting her one of those grand ostrich-feather pens to dip into the ink.

Origami Papers. Yes, there are a million how-to videos on YouTube for how to fold origami mushrooms, unicorns, or beetles. But these beautiful squares of paper are not just for origami, after all. She can make cards or do collage. I keep a full drawer of origami paper at all times in case of emergency.

Photograph-Coloring Pens. Yes, you can play with photos digitally these days, but it's also fun to work with real photos and real ink. These photo-safe tones make an artistic photo pop. Once you see what she can do with these pens, you'll have a new appreciation for photography.

Chandelier. Who doesn't want a handmade paper chandelier? When you run an errand, you can warn her not to swing from the chandelier while you're gone. You don't need instructions to make these; all you need is kitchen twine, yarn, tissue paper, scissors, glue, scotch tape, and straws (recycled plastic, paper, or made from rolled and glued paper). Google the words "Polish paper chandelier" and then look at the images Google returns for many ideas. (See how ours turned out in the photo below.)

She'll get the joke if she's heard Queen's "Bohemian Rhapsody."

She'll get the joke if she's heard Queen's "Bohemian Rhapsody."

9. Book Bag

She can carry her lunch, books, art supplies, gym clothes, and sleepover stuff. Search "literary," "book," and "bag" online, and you'll find many choices.

Other search term ideas:

  • Banned Books Tote (printed with a typeface with every other word crossed out)
  • Pride and Prejudice Tote
  • Kafka's Metamorphosis Book Bag (cool graphics!)
  • Alice in Wonderland (so many good lines to quote from)
  • Adventure Time Beemo Cartoon Canvas Tote Bag
  • Edgar Allen Poe-ka-dots (so cute!)
  • I found one that said, "Literary Rebel: I Read Past My Bedtime"

10. A Boss T-Shirt and Unusual Tights or Leggings

T-Shirts: Give her an expressive, opinionated, unapologetic t-shirt, something she can pull on on a bad day and feel a little better. I searched online (go to Etsy right now and type in "feminist t-shirt"!) and found a bunch of excellent choices with catchy phrases:

  • Girls Just Want to Have Fun-Damental Rights!
  • This is What a Feminist Looks Like
  • Feminism is the Radical Notion that Women Are People
  • Girl Power!
  • This Princess Saves Herself
  • I'm Not Strong for a Girl. I'm Just Strong.
  • Feminism: Teaching Girls to Be Somebodies Instead of Somebody's
  • Well-Behaved Women Rarely Make History

I also found t-shirts with pictures of Beyonce, Virginia Woolf, Frida Kahlo, Dorothy Parker, Audre Lorde, Rosie the Riveter, the Go-Go's, Heart, the Dixie Chicks, and the feminist power symbol.

Tights and Leggings: My daughter sat beside me while we scrolled through the options listed on Etsy (you really can't find good ones anywhere else). These are the ones that caught her eye (and if you go to and search these terms, you'll find them, too):

  • Emily Dickinson's poetry tights (decorated with her poems, in her handwriting!)
  • Origami tights (you can cross your folded legs!)
  • Adventure Time BMO tights
  • Stockings patterned with mermaid scales (evolving from sea to land!)
  • Hot air balloon leggings
  • Tights covered in a woodgrain pattern ("legs carved from blocks of wood!")
  • Stockings patterned with bar codes / SKU
  • Where the Wild Things Are tights
  • Cat leggings (she has these)

Feminist Gifts for Girls?

Why feminist gifts, you might ask. Not just because feminism is experiencing a renaissance—thanks in part to women like Beyonce, Emma Watson, Lorde, Mindy Kaling, Jennifer Lawrence, and even Taylor Swift, who are reminding people what feminism is, and that it's about political, social, and economic equality—but because the longer feminism stays in vogue, it more it will benefit everyone.

Yes, it's true that feminism is cool, but that's not the reason you buy a t-shirt. You give her the t-shirt (or the books or the electric guitar) because they remind her she's unique and important, she's a special snowflake, and the world where "feminist" is a good word is the world you want your girl to live in.

What About Precocious Middle-School-Aged Girls, Tweens, and Nostalgic College Students?

Although I wrote this article for teenagers, the gifts described here might also appeal to a much wider range of ages. Some of these gifts are completely appropriate for your precocious 10-year-old, tween, or even a young college student.

© 2014 A Fonté


Lucy on January 08, 2018:

Category 'an experience' always works for my daughters. Usually, I plan what they are interested in then. Once it was horse riding lessons, another time I took them ona a trip out of town to admire the meteor shower. I also bought them a real star from heaven! Both got a certificate from the Kingdom of Universe. Now they are owner of the star named after them.

Becki Rizzuti from Indianapolis, Indiana on November 29, 2015:

Wow, this is a really incredible gift guide. I'm loving this. I'm not shopping for a teenage girl this year (though sometimes it feels like my seven-year-old is fourteen already) but these gifts are actually super unique and well thought out.

Kate on November 21, 2015:

Thanks so much for this page. After looking through lots of crap gift ideas, this gave me tons!

vsajewel on January 20, 2015:

I love your ideas and you have beautiful photography!

Chin chin from Philippines on January 07, 2015:

My 3 girls have not yet reached their teen years, but they like making art and crafts, including bracelets. They also like music and playing some instruments. I think next time I shop for gifts, I will also check out the 3 game gifts you listed. I'm sure they will like playing these type of games, too. Thanks for the many gift ideas for girls here.

Virginia Kearney from United States on January 07, 2015:

Lots of great ideas here. I really like the idea about games and experiences. I have 4 daughters and one of them loves theater so for the last two years I've gotten season tickets for us to our local civic theater and to the local University theater. Although we don't make every play, and a few haven't been appropriate for a young teen, we generally really enjoy ourselves and are creating memories together.

rebekahELLE from Tampa Bay on January 07, 2015:

I LOVE this hub! You've covered just about everything in such an easy to read, fun article. I love the ideas, and your list of books is so interesting I'm going to look into reading some of them myself! Thanks for sharing so many great ideas! I think 'experiences' are wonderful gifts even for younger kids. It helps them understand life isn't just about material things. Your girls are fortunate to have a savvy, smart mom.

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