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Top 10 Best Engagement Gifts 2015

Updated on February 10, 2015

When two people get engaged to be married it is most certainly a cause for celebration. The union of two people, old or young, who are very much in love is a beautiful thing to see.

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You may be invited to an engagement party to celebrate the good news. Do you need to bring a gift?

The answer seems to be no. If you want to just come to the party and celebrate, you will be welcome. If you do bring a gift, you may want to make the gift really simple, and follow the caveats below.

Etiquette experts—including Emily Post’s great-granddaughter Anna Post—say gifts are not required for someone invited to an engagement party.

Engagement gifts aren’t required at an engagement party, though there is a trend toward giving them in many areas of the country. Traditionally, only very close family and friends gave the couple engagement gifts.

An Engagement Party Is Not a "Shower"

A bridal shower is a different kind of party entirely; it's generally planned by a friend or family member of the bride to “shower” the couple with things they need to set up a new household: kitchen appliances, dishes, linens, and such. There will often be a store registry to make sure guests don’t all give the same thing.

But the engagement party comes well before that level of investment in a household.

Best Engagement Gift: Something Modest for the Near Future

If you still want to give an engagement gift, that’s great. Keep in mind:

  • An engagement isn’t a wedding; alas, it isn’t necessarily forever. Give something that the couple can enjoy in the near future, something that won’t be worth fighting over or dividing if they happen to split.
  • You may know only one of the two happy people well enough to know just what they like, so you can't be sure of pleasing both. The best you can do is give something that the two can share as an experience.
  • Finally, if you know the couple well enough to be invited to the engagement party, it is quite likely you will be invited to a wedding soon, and if you do, it’s quite likely you will want to give a present then—so, don’t shoot the moon right now and spend all your money. Dana Holmes at gifts.com recommends spending no more than 10-25% of what you would spend on a wedding gift.

So, given these constraints on engagement gift giving—something ephemeral, experimental, and rather small—what’s left?

Rose quartz (upper left) is said to be "a happy and loving stone," enhancing all types of love and reducing stress.
Rose quartz (upper left) is said to be "a happy and loving stone," enhancing all types of love and reducing stress. | Source

Some Ideas

  • Cash or a gift card. The gift card should be for a place they both regard as an indulgence and a shared interest: for example, an art supply store, a poster store, a book store, or a restaurant.
  • Something to eat or drink, for example, wine, or a basket of snacks. Such a present can be consumed long before the weighty issues of a permanent commitment are settled.
  • Tickets to a near-term event they might both enjoy.
  • Something for their home, but something smallish, portable, something they can enjoy before they move in. For example:
  • a pretty rock, crystal, or shell
  • a mobile
  • a candle
  • a picture frame
  • a little photo or poster, alluding to a place they have been, or experience they share
  • a pair of soup bowls, coffee cups, or wine glasses
  • a very minor appliance, something to make a food at least one of them likes—a teapot, a croque-monsieur maker, a coffee maker, or a popcorn popper
  • a flower or plant; a pot of bulbs, if it’s fall or winter, will give them something additional to look forward to in the spring
  • A book or movie, or something else they can look at together and laugh at or enjoy.


A Pair of Books to Laugh About

She may think she knows everything about the man she has chosen, but this little book will show there is much more she hasn't learned about him, no matter how long they have been dating.

There's also, of course, a little book for the groom: give the pair if you like. Small, fun, experimental, and ephemeral: a good engagement gift.

Do You Know Your Groom?
Do You Know Your Groom?

This is a 100-question quiz and to get the answers, she'll have to talk to him. The questions explore his likes and dislikes, beliefs and opinions, and gets him talking about interesting stories from his past too.

 

How Public Should an Engagement Be?

Talk about putting a girl on the spot. A man has his brother bring his girlfriend to the movies. After a movie preview, a special trailer comes on; as she watches (on camera), she realizes the trailer was made by her boyfriend, and shows him asking her father for his daughter's hand in marriage and then speeding to the movie theater, buying popcorn, and lurching into the auditorium. The entire family and all their friends are in the theater witnessing the wedding proposal, along with about 100 strangers just there to see the movie. It's funny, though most couples prefer to make their initial agreement more private.

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      hotbrain 4 years ago from Tacoma, WA

      I love the layout of your gift guides and the unique gift ideas you find!!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Brilliant ideas! Thanks!

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      Essentially Ind 4 years ago

      Really helpful lens for loved one....Thank you. :)

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      mlt89 4 years ago

      Great lens! Love the udon bowls :)

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      Wedding Mom 4 years ago

      Great selection of engagement gifts! Thanks for sharing those ideas.

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      MKEflorist 4 years ago

      Some very good ideas. Love the Weekend in Paris gift basket!

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      miller83 4 years ago

      Lovely selection of gifts. Great ideas. Loves the lens.

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      Takkhis 4 years ago

      I like your gift ideas! I bookmarked it. Thanks.

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      Nancy Tate Hellams 4 years ago from Pendleton, SC

      I think the books about How Well Do You Know Your Bride and How Well Do You Know Your Groom would be super gifts for the couple. Great ideas here for wedding engagements

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      Joan4 4 years ago

      These are all wonderful ideas for an engaged couple! I like that steak dinner best!

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      meimeihao 4 years ago

      So romantic!

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      Fcuk Hub 4 years ago

      If I would engage once more, one of these gift is my option.

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      nicolekato 4 years ago

      This will be great. I need to start thinking of gifts to give my fiancé.

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      etchedingifts 4 years ago

      Really nice gift ideas. I personally like personalized engraved gifts.

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      SquidooTutorials 4 years ago

      These are really great gift ideas:) Nice lens:)

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      Wilson Lisa 3 years ago from Hong Kong

      really like the Udon Noodle Bowls

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      theweddingnetwork 3 years ago

      All of them are super gift ideas but i think best one is go out for dinner.

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      christinebravo 3 years ago

      Great list. You might want to add bespoke suit to your list. Its one of the best gift someone could give to his/her partner.

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