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Happy Birthday Wishes for Your Ex-Girlfriend or Ex-Boyfriend

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Stumped on what to write in a happy birthday card for your ex? Read on for wishes and quotes that will inspire you to write a heartfelt message.

Stumped on what to write in a happy birthday card for your ex? Read on for wishes and quotes that will inspire you to write a heartfelt message.

Wishing Your Ex a Happy Birthday

Wishing your ex a happy birthday can be an emotional minefield.

It's only normal to be at a loss for words when wishing an ex a happy birthday, but with these sample birthday messages, it should be easy to write a heartfelt message.

If you are still friends with your ex and you want to wish them a happy birthday, feel free to take ideas and inspiration from these messages, quotes, and happy birthday wishes for ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends.

Happy Birthday Messages for an Ex-Girlfriend

  • How can I forget a birthday I celebrated for so many years? Things may have changed between us, but my feelings of affection toward you haven't. Happy birthday!
  • Here's a toast to all your lovely birthdays that we've celebrated together. It doesn't matter whether I am still in your life or not—I will always wish you many more splendid birthdays to come.
  • I was so lucky to be with a woman like you. You’ll always have a place in my heart. Happy birthday!
  • Nothing can take away from the wonderful times we spent together. We have both moved on with our lives, but I’ll never forget you. Happy birthday!
  • As I close my eyes to bring back all the lovely memories of the times we've shared, a smile comes to my face. May you see wonderful and joyous times ahead. Here's wishing you a very happy birthday!
  • You're an amazing person—never forget that! You deserve the best on your birthday. Have a great one!
  • Happy birthday to the girl who used to be my whole world but will forever hold a special place in my heart. I wish you all the best!
  • I’ll never forget all the wonderful times we spent together. We always had an amazing time celebrating your birthday. Here’s hoping you will continue the tradition—happy birthday!
  • I have seen you turn into a more mature and beautiful person with every passing birthday. May this one also bring you lots of happiness and wisdom. Happy birthday!
  • You will always be an amazing woman, regardless of your relationship status. I’m honored to have been your boyfriend for the time that I was. Happy birthday!
  • I can proudly say I've celebrated many of your birthdays with you, and I've seen you grow into a stronger woman every year. This year, may you add one more feather of success to your cap. Happy birthday!
  • Life and times move on, but the happy memories of times spent with you will remain permanently etched in my heart. I hope you have a great birthday!
  • I have no regrets about our past and wish you all the best moving forward. Happy birthday!
  • Although we are not together anymore, I have no qualms in accepting that I spent the most beautiful moments of my life with you. I hope your birthday showers pixie dust on you, with which you can fulfill all your dreams!
It's hard to find the words to say happy birthday to an ex-boyfriend.

It's hard to find the words to say happy birthday to an ex-boyfriend.

Happy Birthday Messages for an Ex-Boyfriend

  • Let's set our differences aside on your birthday and celebrate all the good times we’ve shared. Happy birthday, babe. May each birthday celebration be bigger, grander, and better!
  • I hate calling you my ex-boyfriend, but I’m glad we’re still friends. Happy birthday, my dear friend!
  • Exes are not meant to forgotten but should be cherished. Here's wishing one of my close friends a great birthday!
  • I won't settle for anything less than a party and drinks tonight! Happy birthday!
  • It only takes the strongest of friendship bonds to wish you a great life ahead, despite our fallout. And after the topsy-turvy times that we've been through, I am proud to say that you are still one of my best friends. Happy birthday and have a great year ahead!
  • Happy birthday to the man who broke my heart! Just kidding! I hope you have a wonderful birthday, my dear friend.
  • I hope this message puts a smile on your face. We may not be together anymore, but you’re too sweet of a person to ignore on your birthday. I hope you have a great one!
  • People may come and go, but an ex is forever! Happy birthday!
  • Here's to our many years of great companionship. From this birthday onward, we'll celebrate great years of friendship together. Here's wishing you a very special and happy birthday!
  • I hope that the best years of your life are yet to come. May you have a roller coaster of life ahead—happy birthday!
  • I used to treat you on every birthday of yours. Things have changed between us this year, but that doesn't mean I can’t say happy birthday. May you have a great birthday and an amazing life ahead!
  • We aren’t together anymore but we will always be friends. Happy birthday to my dear friend!
Surprise your ex with a cute quote inside of a birthday card.

Surprise your ex with a cute quote inside of a birthday card.

Cute Quotes for Your Ex-Girlfriend or Ex-Boyfriend's Birthday

  • “Every birthday is a gift. Every day is a gift.” - Aretha Franklin
  • “Today you are you! That is Truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you!” - Dr. Seuss
  • “You don’t get older, you get better.” - Shirley Bassey
  • “Let us celebrate the occasion with wine and sweet words.” - Plautus
  • “The way I see it, you should live every day like it’s your birthday.” - Paris Hilton
  • “A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman’s birthday but never remembers her age.” - Robert Frost
  • "There is still no cure for the common birthday." - John Glenn
  • “Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.” - Mark Twain
  • “It takes a long time to grow young.” - Pablo Picasso
  • “Our birthdays are feathers in the broad wing of time.” - Jean Paul Richter


random on August 23, 2020:

even though she cheated on me but for some reason my love is still strong for her. tonight will be her bd, i will unblock her probably for the last time in my life and wish her, i may never see the next year bd but she dont know about my medical condition so it might give her a joy for life...............

Jilani on August 16, 2020:

Wish you many more happy returns of the day

Alaisri on August 10, 2020:

Happy birthday

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Sanju boraik on August 09, 2020:

Birthday wise Ex

Helium flame on July 31, 2020:

Happy birthday to my ex

Abdur Rehman on July 18, 2020:

Three days ahead is my ex birthday.

Today i am still strong toward her, reason is that my love for her is very strong. By knowing this that i cant wish her by texting or by face but this time i am visiting these BD cards due to my Love.

Hezron on June 08, 2020:

Happy birthday CHARITY it your day enjoy to the fullest

hana on June 08, 2020:

Today is my ex boyfriend birthday and i just want to say happy birthday to him but idk how?

Lee on May 26, 2020:

Nice Post

Youssef on May 14, 2020:

Today's my ex's birthday (15 of may) wish she'll like what i prepared for her

Lioni on May 11, 2020:

2 days ahead is my ex birthday

Ava on May 08, 2020:

My ex’s birthday is near but we broke up less than a month ago, so I still don't know. Should I celebrate her birthday or not?

Tom on April 28, 2020:

This is a super selfish way of saying things! Please guys don’t do that. An ex birthday is their day, not our to come be annoying with stupid selfish sentence with more “I” than “you” in it

Madutch on April 21, 2020:

Today is my ex's birthday, though i still have strong towards her. Wishing her a prosperous years ahead.

Aman on March 20, 2020:

Today is my Girlfriend birthday. Today her is very miss u. Happy birthday

Harish on March 11, 2020:

I hate calling you my ex girl freind

But we're glad still forever

Happy birthday

Mehboob Nadaf on January 11, 2020:


Today is my ex gf birthday. I m feeling like to tlk with har. But i don't want to make har mood off on har birthday.

Udoy on December 28, 2019:

Happy birthday Aishi

Armaan jeet sing on November 28, 2019:

Happy birthday janudii (annu) God bless uhh nd missing you ❤️

Puja on November 01, 2019:

Happy birthday puja

Babu.. on October 28, 2019:

For my bff.. Half girlfriend

I feel very comfortable when I'm with her..

If I Said I love the way she breath. She is best part of my life.. Unfortunately We are not together.

I missed her every single Second..

Her Born day 29-10-2019

And yea I'm hear..

Asif on October 26, 2019:

27 / 10 / 2019

Today is her birthday. But really i dont wanna text her anymore. But why i came up looking birthday wishes for a lady who left me over 2 years

Trisha Nale on September 27, 2019:

My ex boyfriends birthday comming up 29/09/19

Surojit on July 22, 2019:

Its ur birthday today.... I miss you Betu...i want to talk to you once..but mind says 'no'

Admin is Stupid on June 17, 2019:

All of the wishes you mention doesn't fit for an ex.

Good luck fooling people.

Soyer on May 01, 2019:

My ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and its bin weird and difficult bc i miss him but i don't think he does,miss me and i want him back but i don't now what to do and he seems like he doesn't care when ever i text him,i don't text him often bc of it we r stranger now and i feel if i do sum special he won't give me a response i want he'll probably say thxs but ik just wanted to rant lol sorry.

Sarfaraj on April 23, 2019:

My Ex girl birthday is tomorrow on 24tH April..... Felling shy to wish coz we've not been talking since we broke up last 2 years ago on August and I want to wish her stay happy in his life.... Love you

Loicaz on March 02, 2019:

My ex boyfriend's birthday will be on 4th of march...feeling nervous all way up coz we've not been talking since we broke up last year on august and i want to wish him the very best in his life!

Pinu on February 13, 2019:

I miss you so much da my lover name is Ugin. He is only for me who is the reason for my happiness and sadness

Daniel Oscar on February 13, 2019:

My Ex girl birthday is tomorrow 14th Feb I'm so shy to send her my wishes

Can't just believe this is happening now

Palig on February 10, 2019:

He said thatt i’ll be his last one but... he was my loverr and noww ex lover and still now i love him cant put another boy above himm

Philip Johnson on December 30, 2018:

My girlfriend birthday is on 1st January. She told me to move on in life. This gave me the chance to find another

Dave on September 05, 2018:

Be careful using any of these that talk about your heart. My ex told me I was being inappropriate and to desist from sending birthday messages in the future!

Michael Ireland on July 31, 2018:

My ex girlfriend she birthday in August 18th Ada baker from fishpond message to her birthday what I say her birthday what next step

Arvind on August 04, 2012:

Dear those days u were my Lover,

But Now u became my Ex lover . .

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