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Twin Birthday Party Ideas and Tips

Stephanie has four children, including a set of twins! She loves to share ideas on raising kids—the good, bad, and ugly!

Planning two birthdays isn't as stressful as you'd think.

Planning two birthdays isn't as stressful as you'd think.

Throwing a Birthday Party for Twins

Planning a party for twins or multiples can be difficult, especially when the children are of different genders or if each of them wants to have a different "theme." How can you make everyone happy?

What's more, parties for two are expensive. A simple at-home party can cost you upwards of $100 or more. And that doesn't even include cake or presents!

We have celebrated joint birthday parties for our boy-girl twins for years now. The trick is ensuring that each child feels special, even when they share the day with their sibling. Read on for some fantastic ideas for twin birthday parties!

A crayon-themed party is both gender-neutral and fun!

A crayon-themed party is both gender-neutral and fun!

Birthday Party Ideas for Twins

Pick Similar Themes

When your twins turn one or two, you can go with a simple pink and/or blue theme (or any other color). Candles, streamers, and other celebratory décor make the party very festive.

At my twins' first party, I made strawberry frosting and blueberry frosting for two separate homemade cakes. I also printed out several black and white photos of their first year and mounted them on a black poster board for a cute display.

Guests enjoyed seeing how much they had changed during their first year! I know that many parents think they have to hand out "goodie bags" at the end of the party. For children turning 1 or 2, I think this is just unnecessary. By cutting out that expense, you can save yourself at least $30 or more.

Use a Blended or Unisex Theme

One of my favorite theme parties is a crayon party. This was loads of fun for a group of three-year-olds, learning their colors. Guests were asked to wear their favorite colors. We decorated with bright yellow tablecloths and put out green silverware. A single cake shared by both children was easy and adorable!

If you wish to prepare "goodie bags" for your attendees, simple yellow cellophane bags can be filled with bubbles, small crayon packs, stickers, and small paper tablets. Dollar Stores are excellent places to gather these supplies. Remember not to include small pieces that could be a choking hazard for those three and younger. Hard candy, in addition to toys, could be dangerous.

Throw Same Day Parties

As your children get older, you may be tempted or persuaded into the idea of parties on separate days. To me, this seems like unnecessary work and expense, with one major exception: sleepovers, if your children are of the opposite sex. But let's say your son wants a basketball party and your daughter wants a make-over party. How do you swing that one?

Keep it simple! If you have a spouse or partner to help out, have that person take one set of partiers to the basketball court at a nearby school while you stay home and apply makeup and curl hair with the girls - or vice versa. You CAN make it work if you are creative.

Use a Neutral Background

Select balloons and streamers in a single, unifying color. White works if you have children of the opposite sex. Or, you can go with a simple, colorful festive patterned background.

If your multiples are all boys or all girls, you may be able to go with a pink or blue background or whatever the favorite color may be. Just get an agreement between the children. From there, you can layer the actual selected "theme" of the party by choosing the specific napkins and plates and, if you desire, "goodie bags" that your child has picked.

When it comes to cakes, you can get creative or even silly. Maybe you don't need two or three cakes. No one ever eats all of it, and it often goes to waste.

Why not see about buying a few figures yourself and have Sponge Bob boogie with My Little Pony on a cake that you bake at home? Even better, involve your children in the cake decorating, and they'll laugh right along with you!

Make your own birthday cake instead of buying a store-made one.

Make your own birthday cake instead of buying a store-made one.

How to Save Money Throwing a Birthday Party

Request No Gifts

Sometimes partygoers don't know whether to bring one or two presents. This mainly happens if your twins are very young and/or of the opposite sex. This could potentially result in one child getting more gifts than the other (yes, I have seen it happen). To prevent potential hurt feelings, you may want to consider including a postscript on the invitations to encourage guests not to bring presents: "no gifts please."

Ask for Donations

Alternatively, you can ask that donations be made in your twins' names to certain charities or foundations, such as the March of Dimes. Of course, talk to your children in advance and stress that the party's purpose is to get their friends together for a fun time. It's not about the presents!

More Money-Saving Party Ideas

  • If you make your own cake, it might not look as "tidy" as the ones available at the supermarket, but it certainly won't cost $25-35, either.
  • Buy latex balloons and blow them up yourself. Scatter them around so that the children can play with them (ages three and up!), rather than paying way too much for helium versions at the store.
  • Resist the temptation to buy special banners - you can create these yourself. Include digital photographs, artwork, and stickers. Many children would love to help!
  • Use cloth table coverings instead of flimsy paper ones. Better for the environment, too!
  • In the same vein, use actual silverware instead of plastic.
Having fun is the best part of any party.

Having fun is the best part of any party.

How to Have Fun at a Birthday Party

Don't forget to have fun!

With four young children, I sometimes find myself viewing birthday parties as something to "get through." Instead of putting a great deal of stress on yourself and suffering an undue financial strain, remember the underlying purpose of the entire celebration: To mark another milestone in your child's life with happiness!

Surround yourself and your children with friends and family, and the rest of the day will essentially take care of itself.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2008 Stephanie Marshall


Katie on February 25, 2012:

They should haber a 9 year old birthday. Party

Katy on September 07, 2009:

Thank you! I have been searching on how to plan our b/g twins b day which is only 21 days! Yikes! thank you, I got a lot of ideas. Thank you.

Birthday party ideas on December 03, 2008:

One great idea is to create birthday wish lists for the kids, which can be sent out to the parents of the attending children. This makes the parents job of finding a present easier, and your children can get the things they want.

Stephanie Marshall (author) from Bend, Oregon on May 09, 2008:

Hi abbey - thanks for the comment! I will check out your hubs, too. Steph

abbey01 on May 09, 2008:

Equals Great article...:) Some good planning tip's. I have written an article on "Kids parties" you may be interested in reading. Let me know what you think?