I have years of party-throwing experience, and I'm thrilled to share it with all of you!
Party Game Ideas for 10- to 14-Year-Olds
As a 19-year-old, I remember the days of party-throwing with all my closest friends. My sister and I used to throw parties for every occasion, just because we loved to have an excuse to hang out with our best friends and have some fun!
Over the years, I have gained quite a lot of knowledge on the subject of party-throwing and games, so I thought I'd share my knowledge with all of you lovely people. I hope you enjoy this article.
This game is quite like the board game. Basically, you get a roll of stickers (or paper and sticky tape) and write down the names of some celebrities, friends, movie characters etc. Then, everyone attending the party gets one of these stickers put on their forehead without them seeing it.
The aim of the game is to guess who your person/character is on your head first. Starting off with the birthday girl/boy, they ask a yes/no answerable question, and this continues around in a circle clockwise. Some sample questions are "Am I a girl?" or "Am I an actor."
Once you think you know who you are, you can ask, "Am I ______?", If you are correct, you are out of the game and win! The first person to guess right wins, but keep playing till everyone guesses as this is more fun. You could even buy a cheap little trophy for the winner.
At birthday parties, I loved to just sit down at the end of the night and watch my all-time favourite movie or a movie I had not seen before with my friends. This is a simple activity, but it keeps the kids calm and quiet for 1–3 hours, so it's a good way to wind down at the end of the party.
If you do watch a movie at the party, a great idea to get the kids to behave and pay attention to the movie is to host a movie quiz afterward. Divide them into a few teams and come up with some questions, and the team with the most correct answers wins!
Some of the questions (based on Harry Potter, for example) could be, "What was the name of Harry's owl?" or, "What was the password to the Gryffindor common room?". The team/individual with the most correct answers wins. Again you can incorporate prizes/goody bags for the winners.
This is an ancient game, but it still works a treat every time (and is one game my friends and I still play to this day . . . we're big kids at heart, really). Divide the kids into teams or have them play on their own as individuals. Mime out their favorite movies, TV shows, books etc. When you guess it right, you get points for your team and then it's your turn to act it out!
You can have prepared movies/TV shows/etc. and let the kids draw out objects from a hat, or you can allow the kids to come up with them on the spot. Either way, it's a great game to play and is guaranteed fun.
This one is pretty self-explanatory. Crank up the tunes and get dancing! You could make this extra fun by adding a dance-off and some disco balls/funky lighting. This one is especially good for the older kids.
Another one of my personal favorite games is, of course, karaoke. Take out a karaoke machine, PlayStation/Wii/Xbox game or just turn on some music and sing to your heart's content.
You could also make this into a contest like The X-Factor or American Idol by getting judges and having your friends compete for some small prizes. Again, I think this is guaranteed fun for all involved, and for those who don't like to sing, they can be judges and release their inner Simon Cowell.
My friends and I used to do this all the time when we were younger. If you don't mind the kids playing with make-up—and possibly destroying some of it—this is one game that they will definitely enjoy. You could even buy some cheap drugstore make-up if you don't want to risk your own.
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The rules are simple; lay out the make-up and blindfold one person. This person has to do the make-up of another person in 60 seconds, all while blindfolded. Then, the person whose make-up was done does this to the next person, and so on until everyone has their make-up done.
Once everyone has their make-up done, get some mirrors and laugh away at how ridiculous you look. You could then have a runway show, showing off your make-up and voting on who looks the best/funniest/etc.
Buy some plastic wine/champagne/cocktail glasses from a party shop and supply juices, ice and fruit and let the kids make their own "mocktails." This is a super easy and fun game with really yummy results. This is especially good for older kids who like to be 'grown up.'
What's in That Bag?
This game requires a bit of forward planning. Basically, you sit the kids in a circle and have 10 or so "mystery" foods in black containers/bags. You pass the container around the circle, and everyone can touch, smell or taste the food (only one) without looking into the bag. Blindfolds may be required.
After the kids examine the food, they write down what they think is in the bags/containers, and the person with the most correct at the end wins!
Note: You will have to check with parents to see if any of the children have any food-related allergies.
This game, again, requires some forward planning. Come up with a set of clues or hints and print them off in various orders (so the kids don't start off in the same place). Pair the kids off and give them a list of clues each.
All of the clues will direct them to the clue that will have an answer they need to fill out on the sheet, which will lead them to the next clue. The first pair finished wins! This game is a lot of work trying to come up with interesting hiding spots and clues but is a lot of fun to play and watch as the kids frantically search to win.
The Chocolate Game
Sit the kids in a circle and give them dice. You can use small dice that you'd find in a board game, or you can DIY your own out of cardboard boxes, making large dice, which can add a sense of fun.
In the centre of the circle are a plate with a big chocolate bar, a knife, a fork, a scarf, a hat and a pair of gloves. Starting with the birthday boy/girl, each child rolls the dice until one of them rolls a 6. At this point, the child who rolled the 6 enters the centre of the circle and has to put on the hat, scarf and gloves and eat the chocolate with the knife and fork. No hands are allowed, and you're only allowed one square in your mouth at once; after each square, you have to show an empty mouth to the adjudicator!
This kid keeps eating until someone else rolls a 6 and replaces them. The person who eats the last square of chocolate wins. This game requires either a lot of small chocolate bars or a really big one. Otherwise, the game is too short.
Dress-Up Relay Race
Divide the kids into 2–4 teams, and each team picks a person to be their "Mannequin." Then place a box of clothing (t-shirt, trousers, shoes, scarf, hat etc.) at the far end of the room/ garden, with a series of obstacles in the way.
On the count of three, the kids race one at a time per team (relay style!) to the opposite end of the room/garden, where they have to collect an item of clothing from the box, run back through the obstacles and dress the mannequin in that item of clothing and return to the team. Only when the item of clothing is on fully can the next person on the team go. The team that dresses their mannequin first is the winner!
This is a game for slightly older kids. Get the kids to sit in a circle and have them pick one child to play the "detective" in the game, and they then must leave the room for a minute. Then, pick another kid to be the "wink murderer." When this person is selected, everyone has to walk around the room in random directions, and the detective is invited back inside, but no one is allowed to tell this detective who the wink murderer is.
All the kids have to walk around the room while the wink murderer slyly walks around winking at people. (Once the wink murderer winks at you, you have to count to five and then fall on the floor 'dead') The aim of the game is for the detective to find the wink murderer before he/she kills everyone! This can be played multiple times in a row.
Truth or Dare
This is another classic yet very fun game. Everyone sits in a circle and in turn, picks Truth or Dare. The group then picks a question or dare accordingly, and the person has to do the dare or tell the truth. This is a very fun game, but it may require adult supervision, as kids can be crazy.
Twister was my favorite board-type game, so get a twister spinner and mat and start playing! You are out of the game if you fall or touch the ground, so it's the last man standing! Another twist on this game is to put a blob of paint of the correct colour on each spot on the mat for a messy, slippy, funnier version of the classic game.
As the Olympics are just over, it might be a fun idea to have a mini Olympics of your own. Everyone has to compete in sports like hula hooping, running, soccer, skipping etc., and you can award medals like gold, bronze and silver. You can buy cheap medals in a pound/euro/dollar store.
One playing card is dealt to each person (making sure one of the cards is the Ace of Spades). The person who gets this card is called "The Mole." The group of people playing should then be divided into two teams.
Throughout the rest of the party, all games played should be team games and should use the teams chosen. The job of the mole is to make sure his/her team loses. They should, however, try to avoid suspicion; every 10 minutes, all players will get a chance to guess who the mole is.
If many games are going to be played, then the best way to keep track of the mole's evil doings is to keep a tally of how many games are won by each team. If only one game is to be played, then simply keep track of the cumulative scores.
Every ten minutes (you could extend this time if you want), each player should find a place to be alone, preferably in separate rooms with doors. Then, all players should go in order and announce if they'd like to make a guess as to the mole's identity. If they do, then they go to where their guess is hiding, without letting anyone else see who they walk to, and ask if they're the mole. If they are not, the player asking is out. If they are, the game is over, and the player asking wins.
Blind Man's Bluff
Blindfold one kid and spin them around for 20 seconds to disorientate them! Then they have to walk around the room, arms outstretched, and try to catch another kid. If you get caught, you are now blindfolded! Try to avoid running because that could lead to injury, and make sure to child-proof the area!
This is kind of a more fun way of playing musical chairs or statues, but they are also fun games. Basically, while the music is playing, everyone dances, but once it stops, everyone has to quickly sit down on the ground on their bums. The last person to sit is out, and so on until there is only one kid left. They are the winner!
Who's Your Mummy?
This game requires a few rolls of toilet paper. Divide the group of kids into teams giving each team the same amount of toilet paper. Each team then has to pick someone to be their 'mummy.'
Then, with 40 seconds on the clock, the kids have to unravel as much toilet paper as they can onto their mummy, trying to make them look like a mummy. At the end of the 40 seconds, the mummies have to walk the catwalk and the kids or adults get to vote on who they think is the best Mummy.
Pin the Tail on the Donkey
Once again, this is a classic game that everyone knows, which can be easily spiced up. Print out a picture, for example, Harry Styles from One Direction and mount the image on some cardboard. Then print out some facial features/ accessories such as glasses, moustache, beard, earrings etc. and cut them out and put adhesive (blu tack/ sticky tape) on the backs of them.
Have the kids line up and then, one at a time, blindfold them, spin them for 10 seconds and have them place a facial feature on the printed-out picture. The most accurate kids win.
Note: You can use any item/celeb/animal/etc. Harry Styles just popped into my mind.
I have included a lot of games here, so be sure to write in the comments what your favorite one is from this list and one that you play that is not on this list! Have fun!
© 2012 Laura
Abby on September 09, 2020:
Thanks so much for the ideas my friends are coming on Friday and I’m orginazing it THANKS ✨
Mia on August 13, 2020:
thx for ideas
Nol on August 08, 2020:
These games are very boring bring something that is very interesting and funny for 15year olds
❤ on July 12, 2020:
Thanks for the ideas
Palak on July 08, 2020:
Even I'm a huge one direction fan
Teddy on June 20, 2020:
Thesse games are to kiddish
Khalisa on June 18, 2020:
Some of these are a bit childish but most of them sound super fun! Even for older kids! Thank you!
hi on June 13, 2020:
These games are great
K on May 27, 2020:
Hi these games are great! I love them
mr on April 07, 2020:
this is a website for 3-8 year olds
summer warren on March 11, 2020:
need party games for me so I can have a good party
Jools on March 10, 2020:
I Am turning 14 & also love these games! THX for listing them up-
party peep on February 04, 2020:
Sam on January 20, 2020:
nice but too...little kid-like for tweens...if ya know wut i mean.Plus,some of these games are old-school.I came looking for new games and found nothing but dissappointment!!!
sarah on December 08, 2019:
happy birthday to
D on November 14, 2019:
These are baby games not for 13-14 year olds
Kyra on August 23, 2019:
Yea good variety of games could be more games and maybe some games a little more fun. In my opinion I believe that pin the tail on the donkey is a little childish don't you agree. If I was to rate this website on a scale of 10 I would rate it a 4-10.
Bob on August 12, 2019:
Are there fun
My Chris would lobè this for he’s 50 birthday I really like spin the bottle
Krystal on August 11, 2019:
Best games ever yassss
arilla on August 10, 2019:
this is a supposed to be a list for people looking for new activities not pin the tail on the donkey?
Poopisonyou on August 06, 2019:
Wow wow wowy
person on July 23, 2019:
i like pass the parcel and this website is helping me to decide what i want to do at my home party.
Miss on June 18, 2019:
this should be more for 7-10 year olds
Em on June 15, 2019:
Ok, my birthday is in two months and I don’t know what to do. I’m turning 12, but this didn’t help me, because I’m not aloud to have partys at home.
Sally on May 29, 2019:
These were childish but they were smart more for 7-10
Notverrygood on May 15, 2019:
This site is good for 8-12 year olds but I don’t think it should be 10-14 year olds
Waluigi on May 04, 2019:
These games are SO babyish.
My childs friends were not impressed. 0 stars.
grandmas rule on November 11, 2018:
Vanessa on November 10, 2018:
I found website for 10 years old to play online my age is 10 years old
Billy Bob Joe on November 03, 2018:
I found this website quite useful for my now 11 year old
I am Mr.Anonymus on November 02, 2018:
Found this post very useful. Will use it in the future.
:( on October 23, 2018:
soz there for little kids
kids now want some games with tension not pass the pasle
Giselle on October 07, 2018:
Hey I’m Giselle and I’m having a 13th birthday party and I don’t know what to do and I have 5 friends coming over and I don’t know what to do or what to play when we are all to get her so can you help me
c on September 27, 2018:
these are kind of babyish . Any ideas for a glow party
Samantha on September 21, 2018:
This website is 10-14 u say but I found none of these games interesting and the are aimed and younger kids
mohamed on September 19, 2018:
what would you rather do chop your head of or die
Calais on September 19, 2018:
These are games for 2 year olds. Is there any ideas for 12 year olds?
Fsvsfsacsfsfcbcjvkbnvn on September 15, 2018:
Bad games more for two year olds
Temi on September 06, 2018:
Melissa on August 24, 2018:
Glow in the dark bowling my kiddos loved it ,six water bottle put glow sticks in them then a hampster ball putt glow sticks in the ball set and ready to go
Tamsin on August 23, 2018:
Anyone know any games for 12 year olds for their party?
A on August 20, 2018:
Does'nt help much, try more games like rapping someone in toliet paper to make a dress
Juliet on August 19, 2018:
Mainly games for younger kids
khamis on August 17, 2018:
I found 2 games the rest are lame
Liliana on August 08, 2018:
I cant find no games this suck
funnky on August 04, 2018:
I dont think all games are nice some are and some are not and thats guese who either all are bad games sorry.
Dj on August 03, 2018:
I did not like this list it was very boring and my kids did NOT like these games they were acting bad not paying attention being rude and farting
lara on July 28, 2018:
Page on July 18, 2018:
Really great games ,I loved them I’m definitely using the who’s your mummy game ,thanks so much
Karabojulie on July 17, 2018:
Nice , I'm looking forward to using this list
Sharon on July 13, 2018:
You've put together a good list of games which are all lots of fun. Thank you.
Jenni on July 11, 2018:
I really liked the winks murder one it sounds like a lot of funny thank you for giving me some ideas of party games for me, I also will be playing water ballon Dodge ball like regular dodge ball but with water balloons instead
Jaylie Singleton on July 11, 2018:
What in the world babyish games Sarah u dumb
Simal on July 04, 2018:
Love these ideas and i definetly recommend them!!!!!
Vio on July 04, 2018:
I love Wink murder wonder why I never thought of that but my brothers party has been booked full with games so I can't use this idea but great Idea!!!!!!!
Vio on July 04, 2018:
Couldnt find good games for my brothers 10th birthday party because mist of he games are girly or babyish. SORRY
Hi on June 28, 2018:
I love these ideas , I recommened useing them
Meee on June 23, 2018:
Turning 12 on June 16, 2018:
Great i found ways to change some of these games to fit my party theme the costume relay race was my favorite
10 goin' on 11 on June 13, 2018:
Meh I got some ideas from it but really everything you already know is on here. I only used 2 of the games and 1 of them I already knew the other one is the egg and spoon game which later on I found on a less complicated website.
Almost 11 on June 12, 2018:
these are awesome ideas I am writing them on my list!!!
12 on June 12, 2018:
i think these games are perfect seeing im having a party
13 yr old on June 11, 2018:
Thx found a good game to play at my party my favourite was the dress up chocolate game
Turning 12 really soon on June 10, 2018:
Really helpful I found 3 games that were perfect thank you
12 yr old to be on June 09, 2018:
This was no help, this is the same as every other website! I thought this was going to be special, but apparently not!! Very disappointed!!
Ananomys on June 06, 2018:
thanks i will use for my 12 year olds birthday
lit on June 01, 2018:
I was looking for some games to play with my scout group i found 1 i would recoamend for u to do 'games for scouts'
Someone on June 01, 2018:
Thx I found 2 games
raven on May 31, 2018:
tomorrow is my birthday and maybe I found a game or two from here.
HEDGEchog on May 27, 2018:
This is one of the most useless websites I’ve ever been on
Cc on May 24, 2018:
I find the games more 7-9 but I like some of them
Brianna on May 22, 2018:
I'm turning 12 soon and I think some of these games are great. Although I think some of the games are a bit too ''childish'' for 14-year-olds. I would say these games are bit more 10 -12. But overall, the games are great :)
Bridie on May 22, 2018:
I’m only 9 but I’m looking for the perfect party games, I didn’t find the perfect game.
Iwjwjejjhhhhhwhjwjmwjwjn on May 19, 2018:
I like it
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ok on May 18, 2018:
The person on May 13, 2018:
Saying the alphabet it boring, these games are boring...
Jlvhuonojrgjofnjoghjlq3fjona3&ea on May 07, 2018:
I personally don’t prefer these
anonymous on May 04, 2018:
Some of these are a little to young for the age I'm looking for but some of the other games were great
Olivia on May 01, 2018:
I think some of this games are really good, but some are just baby ish.
bello on April 25, 2018:
omg this so good #yass
MAyA on April 22, 2018:
this is a great website. It is telling me a whole bunch things for me to do for my 10th birthday PARTY!!!!!!!!!
Thank you so much
Destiny on April 21, 2018:
I'm having my 13th b day these will some what work might need a little more out doors
Someone on April 15, 2018:
I might use a few of these for my 11th b day but I'm afraid that one of my geusts won't like them
mystery on April 08, 2018:
heather on April 06, 2018:
i loved all of these ideas I'm going to us them at all of my sleepovers
Horse girl on April 03, 2018:
Loved all of these ideas
Ava on March 31, 2018:
Some of them is fun but these sound like the game are for baby
Michełłe on March 28, 2018:
I’m 12 not 2 bro
KonanDistroyer on March 26, 2018:
i'm turning 10 so these are perfect i love sleep over birthdays
21 savage on March 25, 2018:
YEAH NO! Most of these games are for 5 year olds, I am 15 not 5!
Rochelle on March 25, 2018:
I lik to play a game where every one has a balloon tied to their ankle any ever one else has to try and pop it with there feet last person standing with their balloon unpopped wins
nina on March 15, 2018:
These sound pretty good, I would use a few of these for my 11th birthday
anna miller on March 13, 2018:
Thanks! I'm gonna use these games for my 10th birthday in a few days! It's gonna be great!
Leila on March 08, 2018:
Great ideas thank you . I will get planning for my son's 11th party ..
genesis on March 05, 2018:
do you have diffrent ideas
Anna on March 05, 2018:
TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY! I AM DEFINATLY GONNA USE THIS!
lorelei on March 01, 2018:
Sophie on February 27, 2018:
This is okay I would only play 1 or 2 of those games ( I’m thirteen )
Your nan on February 26, 2018:
these games are crap , and they are for 4 year olds i peronally dont know any 11-14 year old that are still playing pass the parcel and pin the tail on the donkey , but what ever floats your boat it your party man so whatever
Anna on February 24, 2018:
I absolutely love this! I can’t wait for my birthday to come! Looks like I have a list of games planned!!