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Birthday Party Ideas for 11-Year-Old Boys

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Planning a birthday party for your 11-year-old boy?

Planning a birthday party for your 11-year-old boy?

11-Year-Old Boy Birthday Party Ideas

If you are planning a birthday party for an 11-year-old boy, but need some ideas to help you on your way, then this article will hopefully bring you just that. After all, 11-year-olds are growing up and approaching the teen years; they often have rather fixed ideas about what they like to do and what they do not like to do. Parties in soft play centres will likely be a thing of the past now, and the planning of your 11-year-old's birthday celebration might require a little more thought, particularly if he is not sure himself what he wants to do. After all, you want to please your son and ensure that he enjoys his day.

In some ways, planning a birthday party for this age group can actually be easier, especially since they may now be content with inviting just a few special friends rather than half the class. This gives you the option of making a whole day out of the celebration, rather than just a couple of rushed hours booked at one of the play centres. Taking just enough kids to fit in the car gives you a huge scope of places to go; the trick is simply choosing the right place.

Alternatively, structured parties do still have a place in the life of an 11-year-old boy, although he is now likely to prefer more 'grown-up' activities. Girls might like discos, but to my mind, boys usually enjoy organised action, often (but not always) of a competitive nature.

Read on for some ideas on planning a birthday party for an 11-year-old boy.


Let's face it: Boys really do seem to like battles, action, and anything that involves shooting. It doesn't much seem to matter whether you allow them to play with toy guns when they are young or not; in the end, they discover them anyway.

For a boy who doesn't mind a little bit of pain (from what I've heard, getting shot can sting somewhat), a paintballing party may well be right at the top of your 11-year-old son's dream birthdays. Carried out in a woodland scenario, the setting adds an authentic touch to pretend battles. However, you should take care before promising your 11-year-old a paintballing party - a certain amount of investigation is required.

For one thing, paintballing is rather expensive; you will probably need to allow for at least £20 per child, including extra paintballs. At many centres, the initial cost might not seem too bad, but the included paintballs will not be enough. Also, younger paintballers tend to be rather 'trigger happy'; in other words, they like to shoot the gun a lot just because they can.

Also, not all centres will cater for an 11-year-old's birthday party. Often, the minimum age requirement is 12 due to health and safety reasons. However, nationwide, many places will accept children from the age of 10 - they are able to do this because extra protection is provided for the head and face.

There is no doubt that paintballing, with its vast outdoor battle scenes—almost like a computer game coming to life - will greatly appeal to boys of this age group. There are several organisations that run good parties - for instance, a party at Delta Force is a full-day session with a pizza lunch.

Laser Parties

Laser parties are like the precursor to a full-blown paintball battle. They can be enjoyed by children as young as about 6 or 7, although becoming more popular around 8 plus. 11-year-olds still enjoy laser parties—in fact, even teenagers and grown adults play it.

Laser parties generally take place at an indoor venue, where those taking part to shoot each other with laser guns. Points are recorded automatically, and while one team will triumph, there will also be individual winners. Laser parties are extremely popular for boys of this age group. Most venues cater for birthday parties, thus providing food and drink. I don't think it really matters how many times boys attend laser parties: They never seem to tire of them, and it's a great way to expend some energy and have lots of fun at the same time.

Football Parties

For boys who love organised sport, then a football party might be a good choice for an 11-year-old boy's birthday celebration. With an increasing amount of soccer centres popping up, chances are there is one somewhere near you. Basically, all you do is hire out a pitch for an hour or two (it is actually surprisingly cheap: the centre nearest me hires pitches for £12 per hour), take a ball and enough friends to make two teams, and play. Pitches usually tend to be astroturf.

Afterward, you will more than likely have to make your own arrangements regarding food, etc. Some sports centres will cater for parties. Otherwise, you could prepare a picnic or set off elsewhere for a pizza.

Alternative Sport and Activity Parties

Football is extremely popular with 11-year-olds, but not all boys enjoy it. There are plenty of alternative sporting parties to choose from when planning a party for an older boy. Although a structured activity might not, at first, seem much like a party, boys do enjoy this kind of thing, and participating with their friends will make it all the more fun.

Rock Climbing (on a climbing wall) can often be experienced at local sports centres; many will host organised rock climbing parties for groups of children, including tuition from a trained instructor. This type of party can also sometimes be held at local scout centres, where an array of activities may be on offer.

Other ideas for activity parties include archery (a little research should tell you if this is available in your area), canoeing or kayaking at a local watersports centre, or a fun athletics party (which is often offered at good sports centres).

Go-Karting is another activity that will often appeal to this older age group; after all, boys and driving are usually a winning combination. There are actually a lot of go-karting centres around, so there is sure to be somewhere within easy reach.


If you are lucky enough to live close to a dry ski slope, then a tubing party has become a fairly recent hit for older children's birthday parties. It is certainly great fun - anyone can do it, and there are no special skills involved.

Basically - for anyone who doesn't already know - tubing consists of sliding down a dry ski slope whilst sitting in a large donut-like ring. (This will not be the full main slope but tends to be a separate slope at our local slope it is the intermediate slope.) Tubing parties tend to last for one hour - whilst this may not seem long, it is fairly standard for an activity party; any longer and the novelty may well wear off. Parties are organised by ski slope staff, and children absolutely love them. While some children may find actual skiing a daunting and perhaps rather nerve-wracking prospect, I have only ever seen positive enthusiasm when it comes to tubing. The tubes can travel quite fast, so there is a lot of laughter and adrenaline pumping. It is, however, a very fun and safe activity and is ideal for an 11-year-old boy.

Not everybody loves pizza—but most 11-year-old boys do. A movie followed by some cheesy slices is usually a safe bet.

Not everybody loves pizza—but most 11-year-old boys do. A movie followed by some cheesy slices is usually a safe bet.

Movie and Pizza Night

For a fairly informal but fun outing, a trip to the cinema followed by a pizza, burger, etc., at a nearby restaurant is something most 11-year-old boys will enjoy. Boys in this age group, although still keen on celebrating their birthday, do not always want a full-blown party. Some cinemas do birthday party packages, including food, but if you only want to take along a couple of friends, then doing your own thing will be just as good.

10-Pin Bowling

Most boys enjoy 10-pin bowling, and 11 is a good age for a party at a local bowling alley. There is no minimum restriction on the number of kids you can invite, and although bowling can work out a bit expensive, it is a great treat on a special day.

Many boys are quite competitive and take games quite seriously. Although younger boys often have bowling parties (I have known six-year-olds to do so), in my opinion, it is better suited to older children. 11-year-olds can understand and follow the game and scoreboard without assistance; plus, they can manage the heavy bowling balls much more easily. Younger children also often get bored and distracted whilst waiting for their turn, especially if there are quite a lot of children participating. 11-year-olds will wait and chat whilst keeping an eye on the game. Younger children might enjoy bowling, but I think that it really works better for the slightly older ones.

Day at a Theme Park

A day at a theme park is a fun way to celebrate an 11-year-old boy's birthday. If you live close to a good local park, it can provide the setting for a great day out. You could take along enough kids to fill the car up (which will probably not be very many). Make sure that you do not invite an odd number for the sake of pairing up for the rides - one friend is probably better than two, as is three if you can fit them in the car.

At most theme parks, there is something for everyone, whether you like the thrill rides or something more sedate. If you do plan a theme park day out for your 11-year-old's birthday, remember that not all children like 'scary' thrill rides, even if yours does. Also, bear in mind that some rides might have height restrictions, and while some boys around this age will meet the height restriction, others will not yet be tall enough.

A visit to a theme park is always a special treat for a child, and this makes it a great choice for a birthday day out. Theme parks tend to be seasonal; therefore, it will not be an option for a child born in January, for example (and anyway, who would really want to go then?!) Of course, theme parks are not immune to rain, so it is probably best to have a backup plan in mind, just in case of a torrential downpour.

Birthdays Are Special . . .

Birthdays are eagerly anticipated by children of all ages, even the older ones! These days there are so many options available when planning a child's birthday party that it can sometimes seem like a difficult decision. If you have been struggling, then I hope you have found some ideas here to help you on your way.


sup on August 14, 2020:

This really helped me thank you so much

sup on August 14, 2020:


10 yr on August 02, 2020:

Yeah, gonna be honest-we’re boys. Of course shooting each other and pizza are gonna be the only things fun on this list

Dooy on July 31, 2020:

My 11 bday is in six weeks tryin to plan ahead

Jake Whyte on June 14, 2020:

My friends are a bit fussy so add some more manly parties

dudde on May 05, 2020:

well sense this whole thing is going on there is really nothing to do for your birthday because everthing is closed

Jason Warneke on January 31, 2020:

Thanks so much

hdk on January 20, 2020:

i like the ideas

Your boy on January 05, 2020:

My birthday is in 1 month and I don’t know what to do for a theme of my birthday party

spitpit on August 19, 2019:


Spitfire on August 16, 2019:

I really like all the ideas here so thank you! :)

My name is jeff 11 on December 17, 2018:

I like the paintball the movie pizza and the themepark Idea

anonymous on September 24, 2018:

its my eleventh B-day next year but i'm still planning ahead!

Lake on September 14, 2018:

It's my 11 the birthday in 2 days and I don't know what to do

10 year old boy on August 25, 2018:

I think the same here

11 year old boy on August 21, 2018:

Not to be offensive, but I don't really think I will enjoy any of those...

rainbowjazz (author) on June 27, 2018:

Thank you, Connor, really glad they helped :)

Connor lenahan on June 25, 2018:

Loved all of your awesome ideas, they helped a ton

Elsa on May 20, 2018:

Amazing my son did the pogo stick party

devon 11 years old on January 22, 2018:

whate about urbin jungle

Harry Cole on October 16, 2017:

Help please give my some feed back on what I should do for my 11 year old boy

Aditya on September 16, 2017:

Thanks . I am going to turn 11 soon

Thx on June 01, 2017:

Thanks so much!! This helped me and my 11 year old son decide on what type of party he wants. Thanks again!

Hurrickaine on July 08, 2015:

Thanks but I need more suggestions

Kate Jacobs from Atlanta, Georgia, USA on August 23, 2013:

Great ideas. I have a friend of mine that has a daughter that will be turning 11 soon. Thanks!

ddt on March 22, 2012:

well im turning 11 next mounth and i am going to holiday world with 2 friends and faimly